It's that time of the year again. Guys-what are you going to buy for your gal?
Here are a few tips for you that we found on msn lifestyle:
Listen and Ye Shall Receive
We did some sleuthing among members of the best (and toughest) focus group of all: newlywed women. They unanimously agreed that the key to stellar gift giving is simple: it's called listening. Women want to avoid a bad present as much as you do and most of us start dropping hints a few months before the holidays. So start paying attention. If you're watching TV together, don't fast-forward through the commercials. Pick up on subtle clues like when she says "Ooh, those new Nanos look so cool. I really wish I had a green one." If you're walking through a mall or shopping district, chances are gift suggestions will pop up at random as she lingers over that leather bag or those handmade chandelier earrings. And don't be afraid to drop hints about items you'd like to receive — gift-giving street is a two-way, after all.
Just Ask Her
Remember the year you got her a Showtime Rotisserie Grill? We know, the infomercial is engrossing, but that doesn't mean it should be purchased, least of all for your wife (but you know that now). Before you wander off into uncharted territory again, find out what she really wants. One Nest editor's husband recently asked and was pleasantly pleased at her response. She said she wants a flat screen TV so that she can watch college football games in all their glory — a score for both parties! So don't be afraid to just come out and ask her. Her top-pick could be your ideal present too.
Seek Outside Help
All women have a confidante who knows their deepest and darkest desires (read: Marc Jacobs and Tory Burch). Ask her mother, sister, brother or best friend if she's said anything about what she wants for the holidays. You'll get bonus points for doing extra research and planning ahead. Plus, if she doesn't like it, you have someone else to share the blame with! Also look for online helpers. She may have a "Wish List" on sites like Amazon.com or Bluefly.com — you'll hit the jackpot with just a few clicks
Don't Go Crazy
All the members of our focus group agreed: the wrong present is not a deal breaker. You can't pick out a winner every time and women understand that. "I have three brothers, and I know what trauma men suffer when they're forced to shop, so I'm very open minded about what I get," one Nestie remarked. We hate to be cliché, but it really is the thought that counts. So any gesture that shows thought and effort beyond walking into a store, pointing at the first thing you see and having the salesperson wrap it up is our idea of a great gift. If she doesn't realize that, maybe you're not the clueless one after all
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